In this movie, the mother’s breast was removed. She was pregnant and was diagnosed with having breast cancer, so each day her baby grew stronger her body grew weaker. At the time of her delivery her body was so weak they removed both her breasts. Before surgery, the doctors had advised her to bring handkerchiefs to “stuff” her bra with, so what she was left with looked somewhat normal. During this time period the doctors were saying they were doing more mastectomies than tonsillectomies. Telling this to the woman who is emotionally unstable as it is because she just gave birth to a child and now she is loosing both of her breasts. I believe this does not do well for a women’s self esteem, not only is her removing her breasts, the thing that makes her feel feminine, but she is also being told to make herself appear “normal” to the public eye.
As her children got older and the mother started to heal, her daughter became a model right when women’s curves were “in fashion.” This I think would put a toll on the mothers self esteem as well. Her daughter is making money off of her looks and curves that supposedly makes her a woman, where as the mother does not have this advantage. The movie moves along to where her daughter invited the mother to go to a sauna because “all the women are doing it.” Despite her initial instincts, the mother went in order to please her daughter. Within the sauna, women’s breasts were exposed everywhere. This is degrading to the mother as well, however she never exposed herself. As time went on, the mother feel asleep in the sauna and allowed her towel to drop, thus exposing her scar from her mastectomy. The other women in the sauna stared her down, and it was then that her daughter realized all that her mother had went through.
The movie ends with the mother and a young black male touching and kissing each other. Also the daughter keeps yelling in the background, “touch her.” This part of the film I found somewhat disturbing. However I understand the point the director is trying to make. In today’s society a woman’s breast is what makes her feminine. When the mother lost her breast, it leads her to feel undesirable.